Home sweet home. After more than 4 weeks in Baltimore, we arrived back home in Woodstock, GA on Tuesday night. Being able to stay with the Scheihings in Baltimore was a great blessing, but it's always nice to be home.
We took three days to make the 12hr drive back. Our first stop was Lynchburg, VA (5hr drive) where we stayed with our friends the McBratney's and spent some time with Nick at Liberty. Cindy was even able to get a massage from another Lynchburg friend - Lynn Vessels, which helped her tolerate the second leg of the trip.
Our second stop was Davidson, NC (3hr drive) where we stayed with my parents. An unexpected turn of events ended with my Dad in the hospital after a reaction to medication following an outpatient procedure. It was the Lord's plan that I was able to be with Mom in the hospital. Dad had to stay overnight for observation, but went home the next day and is doing fine now.
The third leg was the 4 hour drive home. Cindy had the hardest time with this leg after riding in the car the two previous days. She is still trying to regain her energy.
Now with Cindy home, I can concentrate more on the job hunt. Cindy will be undergoing physical therapy to help regain her strength. Other than her strength, she is doing very well.
-Rick
Friday, April 3, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
Update (3/23/2009) 10:00am
Cindy continues her recovery, slowly getting stronger every day. She left the hospital without a walker or cane and hasn't needed either. She goes up and down the stairs at the Scheihing's several times a day. She showers and gets cleaned up on her own. She is eating well and sleeping frequently, albeit not for long periods of time. The Scheihing's home is a perfect place of rest for Cindy. It is very quiet and secluded, surrounded by woods, a pond, a garden, and plenty of wild life.
Cindy had a great surprise on Thursday. Dan and Lisa Dorner (our associate pastor and his wife) flew up to Baltimore with Jenna to surprise Cindy. The surprise was well-orchestrated and Cindy was touched. It was the first time we had seen Jenna in 3 weeks. They flew back to Atlanta Friday.
On Friday, Cindy had her followup appointment with the neuro-surgeon. He was pleased with her progress. On the way home from the appointment, we stopped at the Amish market for some brief "window shopping". Cindy went back to the Amish market on Saturday for another stroll, but this time took the credit card with her.
My job search continues. The round of interviews I had over the last two weeks all went well. I expect to hear about next steps in the next week or two. I also was able to spend Saturday at a christian men's retreat, hosted by Bob Scheihing. It was a nice break and a blessed time.
Thank you for your continued prayers.
-Rick
"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty." Ps. 91:1
"Be at rest once more, O my soul, for the Lord has been good to you." Ps. 116:7
Cindy had a great surprise on Thursday. Dan and Lisa Dorner (our associate pastor and his wife) flew up to Baltimore with Jenna to surprise Cindy. The surprise was well-orchestrated and Cindy was touched. It was the first time we had seen Jenna in 3 weeks. They flew back to Atlanta Friday.
On Friday, Cindy had her followup appointment with the neuro-surgeon. He was pleased with her progress. On the way home from the appointment, we stopped at the Amish market for some brief "window shopping". Cindy went back to the Amish market on Saturday for another stroll, but this time took the credit card with her.
My job search continues. The round of interviews I had over the last two weeks all went well. I expect to hear about next steps in the next week or two. I also was able to spend Saturday at a christian men's retreat, hosted by Bob Scheihing. It was a nice break and a blessed time.
Thank you for your continued prayers.
-Rick
"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty." Ps. 91:1
"Be at rest once more, O my soul, for the Lord has been good to you." Ps. 116:7
Monday, March 16, 2009
Update (3/16/2009) 9:30pm
Cindy had a restful but productive day today. She slept often and well. She also went up and down the stairs several times; ate breakfast, lunch and dinner; and took a shower for the first time in over 2 weeks. She is feeling much more human.
She has some bloating, so we will do some extra walking tomorrow.
All in all, a very good first day out of the hospital, without nursing care. Cindy's biggest challenge now is not being too bold to think she can do more than her body is ready to do. She wants to be completely back to normal - tomorrow. She will have to be a bit more patient than that.
-Rick
"Praise the Lord O my soul, and forget not all his benefits - who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's." Ps. 103:2-5
She has some bloating, so we will do some extra walking tomorrow.
All in all, a very good first day out of the hospital, without nursing care. Cindy's biggest challenge now is not being too bold to think she can do more than her body is ready to do. She wants to be completely back to normal - tomorrow. She will have to be a bit more patient than that.
-Rick
"Praise the Lord O my soul, and forget not all his benefits - who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's." Ps. 103:2-5
Update (3/16/2009) 12:30am
Well, we waited all day for the doctor to release Cindy. At 8:15pm, we were told that Cindy couldn't be released because the doctor on duty was not qualified to take out her intravenous catheter. Only the special team of doctors that put it in could take it out and they don't work on weekends unless they're there for an emergency.
So despite everything that the Lord has done, and all the prayers he has answered over the last two weeks, Cindy and I resigned ourselves to the situation, since of course it would be impossible for a member of the special team to be in the hospital at 8:15pm on a Sunday night. Our faith was so weak, we didn't even bother to pray for such a miracle.
But praise be to God, he chose to answer a prayer that we didn't even have the faith to ask - yes, a member of the special team happened to be in the hospital at that time and was able to remove Cindy's catheter before he left at 8:30. Cindy was finally discharged around 10:30pm.
After a tour of downtown Baltimore looking for a 24hr pharmacy to fill Cindy's pain prescription, we arrived at the Scheihings about midnight.
Cindy is in a real bed sleeping and I am about to turn in. What an amazing way to end the 17 day hospital stay.
-Rick
"Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen." Eph. 3:20-21
So despite everything that the Lord has done, and all the prayers he has answered over the last two weeks, Cindy and I resigned ourselves to the situation, since of course it would be impossible for a member of the special team to be in the hospital at 8:15pm on a Sunday night. Our faith was so weak, we didn't even bother to pray for such a miracle.
But praise be to God, he chose to answer a prayer that we didn't even have the faith to ask - yes, a member of the special team happened to be in the hospital at that time and was able to remove Cindy's catheter before he left at 8:30. Cindy was finally discharged around 10:30pm.
After a tour of downtown Baltimore looking for a 24hr pharmacy to fill Cindy's pain prescription, we arrived at the Scheihings about midnight.
Cindy is in a real bed sleeping and I am about to turn in. What an amazing way to end the 17 day hospital stay.
-Rick
"Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen." Eph. 3:20-21
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Update (3/15/2009) 5:30pm
Still waiting to be cleared for release, but that's ok. The extra time gives us the opportunity to join our church service online.
Cindy's staples were removed this afternoon - 61 in total (25 in her back, 36 in her side). Stitches are too many to count and thankfully do not have to be removed. They will dissolve on their own.
The last two tasks to be completed before Cindy can be wheeled out is the removal of her intravenous catheter and prescriptions for her meds. Please pray that there are no hiccups in the hospital's processing of these last two tasks.
-Rick
Cindy's staples were removed this afternoon - 61 in total (25 in her back, 36 in her side). Stitches are too many to count and thankfully do not have to be removed. They will dissolve on their own.
The last two tasks to be completed before Cindy can be wheeled out is the removal of her intravenous catheter and prescriptions for her meds. Please pray that there are no hiccups in the hospital's processing of these last two tasks.
-Rick
Update (3/15/2009) 1:30pm
We have received word that Cindy can leave the hospital today - Praise the Lord, another answered prayer!
There is much that has to be processed before Cindy can be released, but the time of her release is not important - the fact that she can leave today is a miracle, especially given where she was in her recovery just a few days ago. As imperfect as it is, the human body, designed and created by God, has an amazing and miraculous capacity to heal.
We know that the Lord rejoices with us as we look back over the last two weeks and consider all that He has done.
-Rick
"The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing." Zeph. 3:17
There is much that has to be processed before Cindy can be released, but the time of her release is not important - the fact that she can leave today is a miracle, especially given where she was in her recovery just a few days ago. As imperfect as it is, the human body, designed and created by God, has an amazing and miraculous capacity to heal.
We know that the Lord rejoices with us as we look back over the last two weeks and consider all that He has done.
-Rick
"The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing." Zeph. 3:17
God is so faithful!!
Last night was a night of constant interruptions and very little sleep. Cindy and I both got up this morning tired and determined that last night would be the last night in the hospital.
The doctor came in this morning and said that if all went well, Cindy could leave tomorrow or Tuesday. After some debate, the doctor agreed that Cindy could possibly leave today if she had a good bowel movement. After the doctor left, I prayed with Cindy asking the Lord to allow her body to do what He created it to do. Before I even finished the prayer, Cindy began to cramp. She went into the bathroom and for the first time in over two weeks, Cindy's bowels did completely what God created them to do.
We won't know for sure when Cindy will be allowed to go home until later today, but God has once again answered our prayers in a miraculous way.
-Rick
"But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the sovereign Lord my refuge; I will tell of all your deeds." Ps. 73:28
Last night was a night of constant interruptions and very little sleep. Cindy and I both got up this morning tired and determined that last night would be the last night in the hospital.
The doctor came in this morning and said that if all went well, Cindy could leave tomorrow or Tuesday. After some debate, the doctor agreed that Cindy could possibly leave today if she had a good bowel movement. After the doctor left, I prayed with Cindy asking the Lord to allow her body to do what He created it to do. Before I even finished the prayer, Cindy began to cramp. She went into the bathroom and for the first time in over two weeks, Cindy's bowels did completely what God created them to do.
We won't know for sure when Cindy will be allowed to go home until later today, but God has once again answered our prayers in a miraculous way.
-Rick
"But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the sovereign Lord my refuge; I will tell of all your deeds." Ps. 73:28
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Cindy had a pretty good day today. She is on a liquid diet and had broth, apple juice, and a protein shake today. Cindy is also still receiving the nutrient IV, so she is gaining strength. She is walking and doing her PT exercises regularly. However, Cindy is showing signs of bloating again, so we need to pray that her bowels are not slowing again.
Tomorrow is a big day. If all goes well and everything is working properly, she may be able to go home to the Scheihings. As you can imagine, Cindy is anxious to leave and so am I.
We said goodbye to Nick today as he drove back to Liberty. It was a tremendous blessing to have all three of the boys here at various times during this ordeal. In their own ways, all four of our children gave special gifts to Cindy in her time of need. Jenna gave Cindy a fleece Panda Bear blanket before the surgery, not knowing that it would be a constant and comforting companion, providing much needed warmth throughout these last two weeks in the hospital. Ryan's drive all the way down from Vermont the weekend after the first surgery was a great surprise for Cindy and the 20 hours of driving in that weekend was no small sacrifice. And of course, only the Lord's timing could have been so perfect as to allow both Matt and Nick here to help in back-to-back weeks. Giving up their spring break to spend sleepless nights and boring days in a hospital to help care for their mom and give their dad much needed breaks went far beyond the call of duty. Their reward was that they were able to witness first hand God's miraculous powers and see the daily changes in their mom as the Lord faithfully answered all of our prayers.
Those sacrificial gifts of love from our children will continue to bless us for the rest of our lives.
-Rick
"The father of a righteous man has great joy; he who has a wise son delights in him." Prov. 23:24
"Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. One generation will commend your works to another; they will tell of your mighty acts. They will speak of the glorious splendor of your majesty, and I will meditate on your wonderful works. They will tell of the power of your awesome works, and I will proclaim your great deeds." Ps. 145:3-6
Tomorrow is a big day. If all goes well and everything is working properly, she may be able to go home to the Scheihings. As you can imagine, Cindy is anxious to leave and so am I.
We said goodbye to Nick today as he drove back to Liberty. It was a tremendous blessing to have all three of the boys here at various times during this ordeal. In their own ways, all four of our children gave special gifts to Cindy in her time of need. Jenna gave Cindy a fleece Panda Bear blanket before the surgery, not knowing that it would be a constant and comforting companion, providing much needed warmth throughout these last two weeks in the hospital. Ryan's drive all the way down from Vermont the weekend after the first surgery was a great surprise for Cindy and the 20 hours of driving in that weekend was no small sacrifice. And of course, only the Lord's timing could have been so perfect as to allow both Matt and Nick here to help in back-to-back weeks. Giving up their spring break to spend sleepless nights and boring days in a hospital to help care for their mom and give their dad much needed breaks went far beyond the call of duty. Their reward was that they were able to witness first hand God's miraculous powers and see the daily changes in their mom as the Lord faithfully answered all of our prayers.
Those sacrificial gifts of love from our children will continue to bless us for the rest of our lives.
-Rick
"The father of a righteous man has great joy; he who has a wise son delights in him." Prov. 23:24
"Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. One generation will commend your works to another; they will tell of your mighty acts. They will speak of the glorious splendor of your majesty, and I will meditate on your wonderful works. They will tell of the power of your awesome works, and I will proclaim your great deeds." Ps. 145:3-6
Friday, March 13, 2009
Update (3/13/2009) 4:30pm
It's now been 11 days since Cindy's second surgery, 14 days since her first surgery, 15th day at Johns Hopkins. It's been amazing to see how much Cindy has progressed in her recovery in the last three days.
Nothing but praises to report today: Cindy's tube was removed this morning and she is much more comfortable; her pain is much better controlled; her bowels are still working properly; the pathology report has come back indicating that the tumor was removed completely intact with negative margins (meaning there were no cancer cells within an acceptable margin from the edges of what was removed) all around; for the first time, we discussed with the nurse today the timing of Cindy's release.
Cindy is taking ice chips and will move on to broth and liquids tomorrow morning. As long as her bowels continue to perform, they will progress her diet as fast as she can handle it.
We set a goal 10 days ago for Cindy to leave the hospital before all of her flowers died. She is down to her last vase of flowers and I am hopeful the goal will be achieved. I believe that a Monday release is achievable - Cindy is hoping for a Sunday release.
Thank you all for your faithful prayers.
-Rick
"Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare."
Ps. 40:5
Nothing but praises to report today: Cindy's tube was removed this morning and she is much more comfortable; her pain is much better controlled; her bowels are still working properly; the pathology report has come back indicating that the tumor was removed completely intact with negative margins (meaning there were no cancer cells within an acceptable margin from the edges of what was removed) all around; for the first time, we discussed with the nurse today the timing of Cindy's release.
Cindy is taking ice chips and will move on to broth and liquids tomorrow morning. As long as her bowels continue to perform, they will progress her diet as fast as she can handle it.
We set a goal 10 days ago for Cindy to leave the hospital before all of her flowers died. She is down to her last vase of flowers and I am hopeful the goal will be achieved. I believe that a Monday release is achievable - Cindy is hoping for a Sunday release.
Thank you all for your faithful prayers.
-Rick
"Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare."
Ps. 40:5
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Update (3/12/2009) 10:40pm
Mom had a great day today! Although the nurses would not let her take a shower, one of the nurses did take on the task of washing mom's hair. It was an unconventional method, but it sure made mom's day! Also, her day was highlighted by two walks, one of which she did not use a walker but rather held onto the IV monitor (with the assistance of Aunt Debbie Simpson by her side. Thank you for coming down!). At the end of the first walk the physical therapist had mom walk down, then back up 4 stairs! Quite an accomplishment, and she did it with ease! Tomorrow is an even bigger day for mom. She is having her tube that is in her stomach cut off for the night to see how her stomach reacts. She will also be on a strict liquid diet to see if her stomach is ready to take on the challenge of working properly again. Please pray that her stomach will handle it! She has not had the taste of food or had anything to drink since Sunday, so she is ready to have something that will not be injected through an IV. Since she had tubes down her throat during surgery and now has the NG tube in her stomach, her throat has become very soar. She said that it hurts to swallow and talk. Please pray they can remove that tube tomorrow. Other than the irritating tube, her pain has been much better today than the rest of the days. Just another blessing from the Lord in the whole recovery process. It is a miracle to see how her body has been able to go from 8 months pregnant with balloon legs (that's what she called them) to looking like mom! God has been at work with her body, and given her a good team of nurses to help along the way.
Since Aunt Debbie came down tonight she will be the one staying with mom tonight. Thank you for every prayer sent out for my dad. He had a good interview, and had enough energy to make it through. Next interview will be Wednesday (hopefully mom will be at the Scheihing's by Monday, so there will always be someone with her while dad is away).
Thank you for your continued prayers and comments. Each comment gets read, and they never fail to bring an abundance of encouragement to mom. Thank you.
-Nick
Psalm 9:10-11 Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.Sing praises to the LORD, enthroned in Zion; proclaim among the nations what he has done.
Since Aunt Debbie came down tonight she will be the one staying with mom tonight. Thank you for every prayer sent out for my dad. He had a good interview, and had enough energy to make it through. Next interview will be Wednesday (hopefully mom will be at the Scheihing's by Monday, so there will always be someone with her while dad is away).
Thank you for your continued prayers and comments. Each comment gets read, and they never fail to bring an abundance of encouragement to mom. Thank you.
-Nick
Psalm 9:10-11 Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.Sing praises to the LORD, enthroned in Zion; proclaim among the nations what he has done.
Update (3/12/2009) 10:00am
Mom had very quiet nurses for the night shift, so she actually got a fairly good nights sleep. The Lord has continued to bless mom's fighter's spirit. The nutrients have given her more energy, calmed her stomach even more, and given her the strength she will need to possibly take a shower today (with the help of a shower stool). Her legs actually look like her old legs, so the swelling has continued to go down considerably. Mom and I are about to take a walk around "the loop" (ninth floor). Keep praying for pain tolerance. Her pain was about a 5 this morning, which is down from last night, but it always fluctuates.
- Nick
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Update (3/11/2009) 10:45pm
The nutrients are in! Praise the Lord! Mom has not eaten since Sunday, and technically is still not eating, but receiving all the benefits of eating.
A minor concern to be kept in prayer is that her suction has begun to bring up small amounts of blood in the liquid from her stomach. This is not a big deal because nothing has come up in the x-rays, but is definitely something worth praying for. The nurse just walked in and asked about mom's pain, and she said about a 7, which is still pretty high even after having pain medication. Please keep the pain she is has in your prayers, because this continues to cause a lot of discomfort.
My dad landed in Boston, MA tonight around 10:15 or so. He has been tired all week, and definitely needs all the energy the Lord can give him for tomorrows interview. The Lord is in control, He will give my dad all the energy he needs, and I am confident in that!
Lastly, please pray for Jenna. She's been with friends for the past 2 weeks (which we are so thankful for), but it must be hard to be in her situation, knowing she can't see her momma. So please lift her up in prayer that God would comfort her spirit for the remaining weeks. (And that mom and dad might be able to get back home in time for her birthday 3/29)
Thank you all for your continued prayers! We love and appreciate all of you!
-Nick
Psalm 28:5-7 - Praise the Lord for He has heard my cry for mercy. The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to Him in song.
Update (3/11/2009) 4:00pm
Cindy is fighting a lot of pain today, but making great progress in the battle of the bowels. Her xray today showed that her small intestine is clear, so the air is now confined to the large intestine and working its way out. Probably another 24hrs with the suction tube. The bloating in her stomach is noticeably reduced. The swelling in her legs is greatly reduced. At one point, Cindy was retaining about 30 lbs of excess fluid in her lower body.
Cindy is doing as much walking and moving around as she can tolerate with the pain. Earlier today, she went down to the gym and we played a couple games of tennis - on the wii of course. Then she came back up to her room, rested for a few minutes and then went out and did a lap around the floor. She is making such good progress that the nurses have begun turning their attention to other more needy patients.
Nick has been a big help, especially in my absence. He will carry the load again tonight and tomorrow while I'm out of town for an interview.
Please pray that Cindy's bowel continues to rid itself of the air and that her suction tube can be removed tomorrow. Then she will be able to take pain medication to better manage her pain and begin to eat.
We are encouraged by Cindy's progress and by your continued support and prayers.
-Rick
"May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ." Rom. 15:5-6
Cindy is doing as much walking and moving around as she can tolerate with the pain. Earlier today, she went down to the gym and we played a couple games of tennis - on the wii of course. Then she came back up to her room, rested for a few minutes and then went out and did a lap around the floor. She is making such good progress that the nurses have begun turning their attention to other more needy patients.
Nick has been a big help, especially in my absence. He will carry the load again tonight and tomorrow while I'm out of town for an interview.
Please pray that Cindy's bowel continues to rid itself of the air and that her suction tube can be removed tomorrow. Then she will be able to take pain medication to better manage her pain and begin to eat.
We are encouraged by Cindy's progress and by your continued support and prayers.
-Rick
"May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ." Rom. 15:5-6
Update (3/11/2009) 9:00am
Last night was a very rough night. My mom was able to get a maximum of two hours of sleep, and I was not able to get much more than that either. I can definitely sympathize with my dad as to how hard it has been on him to get sleep. This morning has been a great one for her bowels. My dad would be happy to know that she has stunk up the room, twice now. The nurse/physical therapist want her up and walking every four hours today, so pray that the Lord gives her the energy and strength throughout the day to complete these walks.
-Nick
Psalm 18:31-33 For who is God besides the LORD? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights.
-Nick
Psalm 18:31-33 For who is God besides the LORD? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Update (3/10/2009) 9:20pm
Here's the progress report. My mom continued her physical therapy with another walk this morning with the assistance of Anna (the splendid nurse) and my dad. A team of specialists were successful in the procedure of placing the catheter into her vein (in the right arm), this evening. She will not be able to receive the nutrients until around nine o'clock tomorrow night. She has not had food since Sunday, so she is becoming pretty weary. Pray the Lord will continue to give her strength, and that He will miraculously not make her hungry for the next 24 hours.
Another big update is my mom's bowels. She had three movements, one of which was quite a dandy as my dad so elegantly described. She is in a good deal of pain still, her back was a big annoyance today.
If you're wondering why I am referring to 'my dad' and 'my mom', that is because this is Nick (#3 in the line of sons). My dad went back to the Scheihing's tonight to hopefully get a good solid night's sleep before his interview on Thursday. He flies out tomorrow in the afternoon, and will not be getting back until late Thursday night. With that being said, please pray that the Lord will give him the energy he needs to complete the tasks of these interviews. I asked him yesterday, "on a scale from 1 to tired, how tired are you?" He said about an 8/10, so he needs some good rest. It's been amazing to see how faithful both my parents have been to keep God at the center of this entire process. I wish everyone could see how closely mended/knit their marriage is through Christ! It's been a blessing!
Lord, bless us all with good rest!
- Nick
Romans 5:3-5 - Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.
Another big update is my mom's bowels. She had three movements, one of which was quite a dandy as my dad so elegantly described. She is in a good deal of pain still, her back was a big annoyance today.
If you're wondering why I am referring to 'my dad' and 'my mom', that is because this is Nick (#3 in the line of sons). My dad went back to the Scheihing's tonight to hopefully get a good solid night's sleep before his interview on Thursday. He flies out tomorrow in the afternoon, and will not be getting back until late Thursday night. With that being said, please pray that the Lord will give him the energy he needs to complete the tasks of these interviews. I asked him yesterday, "on a scale from 1 to tired, how tired are you?" He said about an 8/10, so he needs some good rest. It's been amazing to see how faithful both my parents have been to keep God at the center of this entire process. I wish everyone could see how closely mended/knit their marriage is through Christ! It's been a blessing!
Lord, bless us all with good rest!
- Nick
Romans 5:3-5 - Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.
Update (3/9/09 - 2:00 pm)
A couple items worth mentioning at this time.
We learned our nurse Anna is a fighter - she fights for her patients. At one point this morning, Cindy had gone for her longest walk yet and was resting in a chair in the hallway when another nurse came down the hall wheeling a patient on a bed and was a bit impatient and loud about the fact that Cindy was in the hallway. Well, Anna took charge immediately and went toe to toe to let the nurse know, in no uncertain terms, how inappropriate her behavior was. Anna didn't throw and punches, but I there was a moment that I thought she was going to put the lady's lights out. Anna has been Cindy's nurse more than any other on the floor over the last week and has experienced Cindy's entire battle since the second surgery. We thank the Lord for Anna and for her care and protection of Cindy. Anna joined us today for my reading of blog updates and emails to Cindy. She enjoyed the break from her routine.
The other item worth noting is that Cindy made a "joyful noise" on the commode today. Clearly an answer to prayer. It didn't quite stink up the room, but we'll take it, and we pray for more.
It looks like Cindy will go down for her intravenous catheter in a couple of hours. They have to give her a "twilight" anesthesia for the procedure. The anesthesia is not expected to affect her bowel situation, but please pray that it doesn't cause another bowel setback.
-Rick
"Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all the earth: make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise". Ps. 98:4
We learned our nurse Anna is a fighter - she fights for her patients. At one point this morning, Cindy had gone for her longest walk yet and was resting in a chair in the hallway when another nurse came down the hall wheeling a patient on a bed and was a bit impatient and loud about the fact that Cindy was in the hallway. Well, Anna took charge immediately and went toe to toe to let the nurse know, in no uncertain terms, how inappropriate her behavior was. Anna didn't throw and punches, but I there was a moment that I thought she was going to put the lady's lights out. Anna has been Cindy's nurse more than any other on the floor over the last week and has experienced Cindy's entire battle since the second surgery. We thank the Lord for Anna and for her care and protection of Cindy. Anna joined us today for my reading of blog updates and emails to Cindy. She enjoyed the break from her routine.
The other item worth noting is that Cindy made a "joyful noise" on the commode today. Clearly an answer to prayer. It didn't quite stink up the room, but we'll take it, and we pray for more.
It looks like Cindy will go down for her intravenous catheter in a couple of hours. They have to give her a "twilight" anesthesia for the procedure. The anesthesia is not expected to affect her bowel situation, but please pray that it doesn't cause another bowel setback.
-Rick
"Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all the earth: make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise". Ps. 98:4
Update (3/9/09 - 12:00 pm)
Well, the PIC team was unable to get the PIC line in. Cindy's veins were apparently too small and weak. Plan B is to take her down to the PIC lab where they have special xray equipment to help get the line in place. They hope to be able to fit her into the schedule today, otherwise it will have to wait until tomorrow. Since Cindy cannot eat or drink with her suction tube in place, the PIC line is the only way to get nutrition into her body. Please pray that the line is successfully installed today.
-Rick
-Rick
Update (3/9/09 - 9:00 am)
Cindy had a rougher time sleeping last night. She hurts all over - back pain from both surgeries, side pain from the cracked rib, and gas pains from her abdomen. The gas pains were the primary source of discomfort last night. A lot of rumbling but nothing productive. Cindy had a great nurse last night, but she accidentally forgot to turn the suction back on in Cindy's tube after getting her back to bed at one point. That means that the tube was useless for most of the night. A frustrating and disappointing discovery, but a reminder that no matter how good the intentions, we are imperfect people dealing with imperfect people, within an imperfect medical system, in an imperfect world. But we can be thankful that we have a perfect Lord who controls it all. We continue to trust Him.
Our friend Michelle mentioned in an email how self-conscious women can be about passing gas, but she is praying that Cindy passes lots of gas. I agree. So I'm praying that Cindy stinks up the room today. Cindy may wince at my crudeness, but feel free to join me in that prayer.
-Rick
"As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in Him." Ps. 18:30
Our friend Michelle mentioned in an email how self-conscious women can be about passing gas, but she is praying that Cindy passes lots of gas. I agree. So I'm praying that Cindy stinks up the room today. Cindy may wince at my crudeness, but feel free to join me in that prayer.
-Rick
"As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in Him." Ps. 18:30
Monday, March 9, 2009
Update (3/8/09 - 11:30 pm)
More progress made today, but more patience is required. As of now, Cindy still has the suction tube trying to pump the air out of her stomach. A 24 hour hope (hope of tube removal) has turned into at least a 48 hour reality. Cindy's bloating has decreased some, but not as significantly as we had hoped. The pain from the bloating has decreased, while her back pain seems to have increased. Because she is so nutritionally deprived, Cindy will have a "PIC line" inserted tomorrow (it's a type of catheter inserted into a vein) that will allow the doctors to feed her nutrition in addition to IVs and meds in the same line.
The good news is that Cindy was up and walking more today. Nick and the nurse took her on a stroll down the hall (using a walker) for the first time. She took the same stroll this evening with the nurse and me - without the walker. She was in a lot of pain in her back for the second stroll, but she wouldn't give up until she had walked the same distance as the first stroll. I continue to be amazed at her courage and determined spirit. The Lord is definitely honoring her efforts with supernatural strength. Cindy's humanity came through though a couple of times when the pain was too much and brought her to tears. For those of you that know Cindy well, you know that it takes a lot of pain to bring her to tears.
We capped off the day with Nick reading Cindy's devotional and all of the most recent comments and emails from many of you. The tears we shed during that time were tears of thankfulness. Please know how much your encouragement and prayers mean to both of us.
After the devotion, Nick played a couple programs from one of our favorite comedians - Gary Burbank from Cincinnati (his Gilbert Gnarley character for those of you familiar with his old radio talk show). We laughed until we cried. I think Cindy popped a couple of staples, but she said it was worth it. Thank you Nick for your healing prescription - laughter.
-Rick
"Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy." Ps. 126:5
The good news is that Cindy was up and walking more today. Nick and the nurse took her on a stroll down the hall (using a walker) for the first time. She took the same stroll this evening with the nurse and me - without the walker. She was in a lot of pain in her back for the second stroll, but she wouldn't give up until she had walked the same distance as the first stroll. I continue to be amazed at her courage and determined spirit. The Lord is definitely honoring her efforts with supernatural strength. Cindy's humanity came through though a couple of times when the pain was too much and brought her to tears. For those of you that know Cindy well, you know that it takes a lot of pain to bring her to tears.
We capped off the day with Nick reading Cindy's devotional and all of the most recent comments and emails from many of you. The tears we shed during that time were tears of thankfulness. Please know how much your encouragement and prayers mean to both of us.
After the devotion, Nick played a couple programs from one of our favorite comedians - Gary Burbank from Cincinnati (his Gilbert Gnarley character for those of you familiar with his old radio talk show). We laughed until we cried. I think Cindy popped a couple of staples, but she said it was worth it. Thank you Nick for your healing prescription - laughter.
-Rick
"Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy." Ps. 126:5
Update (3/8/09 - 9:00 am)
Cindy slept pretty well last night, despite the tube. Her stomach is still very bloated this morning after 12 hours with the tube, but she has felt some relief. Still a long way to go, but that's progress.
This week and next are going to be a bit crazy for me. Please pray for my energy level. I have two phone interviews and three in person interviews, which is great activity in the job search process, but the Lord is going to have to provide my energy. Spending nights sleeping on a reclining chair in a hospital room isn't doing it. A minor battle though compared to Cindy's.
-Rick
"For who is God besides the Lord? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect." Ps. 18:31-32
This week and next are going to be a bit crazy for me. Please pray for my energy level. I have two phone interviews and three in person interviews, which is great activity in the job search process, but the Lord is going to have to provide my energy. Spending nights sleeping on a reclining chair in a hospital room isn't doing it. A minor battle though compared to Cindy's.
-Rick
"For who is God besides the Lord? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect." Ps. 18:31-32
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Update (3/8/09 - 11:30pm)
This turned out to be a very exhausting day and a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Tired and weary sums it up for me. Cindy on the other hand looks frail and weak, but has an inner strength that amazes me and everyone else around her. She has been through so much, and yet keeps fighting such a good fight. She's like the boxer that gets battered and knocked down, but keeps getting back up to fight on. Rocky would be proud.
Cindy was doing so well in many ways throughout the day - she was up and moving; out of bed for most of the day; feeling well; alert and full of personality with a sense of humor; made some phone calls; even walked from one end of the room and back with a son on each arm (Matt and Nick).
But throughout the day, she continued to become more and more uncomfortable with the abdominal bloating. She literally looks about 8 months pregnant (I know I'll hear it for that one). The tube insertion was an emotional setback. I keep trying to remind Cindy that the worst is behind her. Two steps forward and one step back makes for slow and tiring progress, but we know the Lord is in control and has a reason for all trials and suffering he allows his children to go through. We have to trust Him, trust Him, trust Him.
Cindy is sleeping soundly now. Good night sweetheart.
-Rick
"Do you not know? have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak." Isa. 40:28-29
Cindy was doing so well in many ways throughout the day - she was up and moving; out of bed for most of the day; feeling well; alert and full of personality with a sense of humor; made some phone calls; even walked from one end of the room and back with a son on each arm (Matt and Nick).
But throughout the day, she continued to become more and more uncomfortable with the abdominal bloating. She literally looks about 8 months pregnant (I know I'll hear it for that one). The tube insertion was an emotional setback. I keep trying to remind Cindy that the worst is behind her. Two steps forward and one step back makes for slow and tiring progress, but we know the Lord is in control and has a reason for all trials and suffering he allows his children to go through. We have to trust Him, trust Him, trust Him.
Cindy is sleeping soundly now. Good night sweetheart.
-Rick
"Do you not know? have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak." Isa. 40:28-29
Update (3/8/09 - 7:30pm)
Cindy's abdomen has continued to fill with air without relief. As a result, the doctor ordered an air tube to be inserted. The insertion was not pleasant for Cindy. She now cannot talk, eat or drink for 24 hours while the air is sucked out of her stomach. Please pray that this works and gives Cindy the relief she needs.
Lord, how much more must she endure?
-Rick
"But those who suffer he delivers in their suffering; he speaks to them in their affliction." Job 36:15
Lord, how much more must she endure?
-Rick
"But those who suffer he delivers in their suffering; he speaks to them in their affliction." Job 36:15
Update (3/8/09 - 1:30pm)
Cindy and I started our morning off by joining our home church service on line (fbcw.org). What a blessing technology can be (at times).
Cindy had a pretty good night again last night. She has been up and out of bed since about 8am today. She even walked across the room. The nurse wants to take her out walking the hall later today. We'll work on dancing after that.
Cindy's bowels are still not functioning properly, so that is our #1 prayer request at this time. She is extremely bloated with air and cannot eat solid food without creating further discomfort. As a result, her body is lacking nutrition and she has lost weight.
Thanks for the constant words of encouragement. Know that I read all emails and blog comments to Cindy. You all are being the body of Christ to us and are a great blessing.
-Rick
"Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
I Thes. 5:11
Cindy had a pretty good night again last night. She has been up and out of bed since about 8am today. She even walked across the room. The nurse wants to take her out walking the hall later today. We'll work on dancing after that.
Cindy's bowels are still not functioning properly, so that is our #1 prayer request at this time. She is extremely bloated with air and cannot eat solid food without creating further discomfort. As a result, her body is lacking nutrition and she has lost weight.
Thanks for the constant words of encouragement. Know that I read all emails and blog comments to Cindy. You all are being the body of Christ to us and are a great blessing.
-Rick
"Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
I Thes. 5:11
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Update (3/7/09 - 10:30pm)
Well, Cindy got out of bed and into the chair for 4 hours today. Needless to say, she received her foot massage.
Her catheter was removed this morning, so she has had to use the commode - another important step of progress in her recovery. Maybe tomorrow she will walk around a bit. Her bowels are still sluggish, but showing some signs of activity.
I think the two hills to climb before she can leave the hospital are a fully functioning bowel and being able to get up and walk with my assistance and without the nurse.
Please pray for me to have patience in this process and for Cindy to not be discouraged.
-Rick
"I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord. Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare." Ps. 40:1-3, 5
Her catheter was removed this morning, so she has had to use the commode - another important step of progress in her recovery. Maybe tomorrow she will walk around a bit. Her bowels are still sluggish, but showing some signs of activity.
I think the two hills to climb before she can leave the hospital are a fully functioning bowel and being able to get up and walk with my assistance and without the nurse.
Please pray for me to have patience in this process and for Cindy to not be discouraged.
-Rick
"I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord. Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare." Ps. 40:1-3, 5
Update (3/7/09 - 12:30pm)
Cindy had a decent night sleep last night. She still hasn't felt up to getting out of bed yet. She has had some liquid lunch. I have made her a deal that as soon as she gets up and into the chair, I will give her a foot massage. She has agreed.
-Rick
-Rick
Friday, March 6, 2009
Update (3/6/09 - 8:30pm)
Cindy's xrays and CT scan came back clear. No blockages and normal levels of fluid left over from the surgeries. Thank you Lord.
The problem is that Cindy's abdomen is filled up with air. The cure for that is getting up and moving around. Cindy didn't feel up to that today, but I don't think she'll be given a choice tomorrow. As painful as it is, she has to get up and move. I'll let you know how that goes with the updates tomorrow. Thank you for your prayers.
-Rick
The problem is that Cindy's abdomen is filled up with air. The cure for that is getting up and moving around. Cindy didn't feel up to that today, but I don't think she'll be given a choice tomorrow. As painful as it is, she has to get up and move. I'll let you know how that goes with the updates tomorrow. Thank you for your prayers.
-Rick
Update (3/6/09 - 12:00pm)
Cindy's stomach has continued to swell and fill with fluid. It is causing a lot of discomfort and pain. As a result, she has not been able to get out of bed today. They took xrays about an hour ago, but it didn't shed any light on the cause. Cindy is now scheduled for a CT scan at around 2pm. Please pray that there is no developing complication. This probably sets her back a day for leaving the hospital. All in the Lord's time.
-Rick
-Rick
Update (3/6/09 - 8:30am)
Cindy had a pretty good night last night. The new pain medication seems to be working better for her.
Today is a big day. They removed Cindy's oxygen line and IV during the night. They remove her chest tube and catheter today. Once done, she will be completely freed from all tubes and mechanical support lines. I expect they will try to get Cindy to walk the hall a bit. She will also have to walk to the bathroom when she needs to use it. So many things we take for granted but will be major accomplishments in Cindy's recovery.
Lord, help me not to take so much for granted, but to be thankful in all things and for all things.
-Rick
"Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." Eph. 5:19b-20
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." I Thes. 5:16-18
"Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done.
Ps. 105:1
Today is a big day. They removed Cindy's oxygen line and IV during the night. They remove her chest tube and catheter today. Once done, she will be completely freed from all tubes and mechanical support lines. I expect they will try to get Cindy to walk the hall a bit. She will also have to walk to the bathroom when she needs to use it. So many things we take for granted but will be major accomplishments in Cindy's recovery.
Lord, help me not to take so much for granted, but to be thankful in all things and for all things.
-Rick
"Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." Eph. 5:19b-20
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." I Thes. 5:16-18
"Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done.
Ps. 105:1
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Update (3/5/09 - 10:30pm)
Cindy spent most of the day in the chair. They have switched her pain medication to a less narcotic drug. As a result, Cindy was more coherent for more of the day, but had to endure more pain. It's a difficult tradeoff. She will stay off of the stronger medication for the night tonight to see how she does.
Cindy ate chicken broth for lunch and beef broth for dinner without any problems. But her bowels are still "sleepy". Further attempts to wake them today didn't seem to help. Patience is needed as it will take time. Please pray that:
1. Bowels wake up so Cindy can begin eating more solid food.
2. The pain medication challenge of balancing pain relief and scrambled brains is resolved.
3. The fluid and swelling in Cindy's knees, thighs, and abdomen subsides.
Cindy's sister Debbie will be coming tomorrow to relieve me so I can get a good night sleep (thank you Debbie!). Nick will also arrive tomorrow night to spend the next week here. Matt's company has been a great blessing, so Nick's arrival before Matt heads back to school ensures the blessing continues. The fact that the boys' spring breaks fell the way they did is an example of God's perfect timing.
-Rick
"For there is a proper time and procedure for every matter, though a man's misery weighs heavily upon him." Ecc. 8:6
"Brothers, as an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy." James 5:10-11
Cindy ate chicken broth for lunch and beef broth for dinner without any problems. But her bowels are still "sleepy". Further attempts to wake them today didn't seem to help. Patience is needed as it will take time. Please pray that:
1. Bowels wake up so Cindy can begin eating more solid food.
2. The pain medication challenge of balancing pain relief and scrambled brains is resolved.
3. The fluid and swelling in Cindy's knees, thighs, and abdomen subsides.
Cindy's sister Debbie will be coming tomorrow to relieve me so I can get a good night sleep (thank you Debbie!). Nick will also arrive tomorrow night to spend the next week here. Matt's company has been a great blessing, so Nick's arrival before Matt heads back to school ensures the blessing continues. The fact that the boys' spring breaks fell the way they did is an example of God's perfect timing.
-Rick
"For there is a proper time and procedure for every matter, though a man's misery weighs heavily upon him." Ecc. 8:6
"Brothers, as an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy." James 5:10-11
Update (3/5/09 - 11:00am)
Cindy is sitting in the chair again. Today the chair was put a little further from the bed, so she had a few extra steps to take. She did better today than yesterday - baby steps of progress.
Cindy has had some terrific nurses over the last week - Jackie, Shelly, Olivia, Jen, Anna, Woo-Lim, and Klaudia - a helpful and caring nursing student that was assigned to Cindy today.
Recovery is definitely more of a marathon than a sprint. Paced progress and trusting the Lord for strength and perseverance are the keys.
-Rick
"...let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith" Heb. 12:1b-2a
Cindy has had some terrific nurses over the last week - Jackie, Shelly, Olivia, Jen, Anna, Woo-Lim, and Klaudia - a helpful and caring nursing student that was assigned to Cindy today.
Recovery is definitely more of a marathon than a sprint. Paced progress and trusting the Lord for strength and perseverance are the keys.
-Rick
"...let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith" Heb. 12:1b-2a
Update (3/5/09 - 8:30am)
Cindy got a good night sleep last night thanks to heavy pain medication. Her bowels showed signs of "waking up" in the middle of the night - an answer to prayer. Doc says her chest tube suction will be turned off today and her side drain will be removed. Hopefully her chest tube will be removed tomorrow so she can walk around more easily. It's amazing to consider what Cindy has been through in the last week and how quickly her body is already healing. Though our bodies may be temporary and perishable, they are beautifully and wonderfully made.
How anyone can take time to consider the complexity and healing capacity of the human body and not believe in the One who designed and created it is beyond me.
-Rick
"But in fact, God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be." I Cor. 12:18
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Ps. 139:13-14
How anyone can take time to consider the complexity and healing capacity of the human body and not believe in the One who designed and created it is beyond me.
-Rick
"But in fact, God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be." I Cor. 12:18
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Ps. 139:13-14
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Update (3/4/09 - 8:30pm)
Cindy sat in the chair again for about 2 hours. She is still retaining a lot of fluid (especially in her knees, thighs, and abdomen) and not allowed to eat or drink due to her "sleepy" bowels. The doctors hope to remove the chest tube suction tomorrow and remove the tube altogether Friday. That would make Sunday her likely departure day. Please pray that Cindy's bowels "awake" and the excess fluid exits her body soon.
Cindy's pain is under control, but she is pretty loopy (she asked me to clean the kitchen a few minutes ago). She is sleeping soundly right now. I will be staying the night to keep a close eye on her.
-Rick
"I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety." Ps. 4:8
Cindy's pain is under control, but she is pretty loopy (she asked me to clean the kitchen a few minutes ago). She is sleeping soundly right now. I will be staying the night to keep a close eye on her.
-Rick
"I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety." Ps. 4:8
Update (3/4/09 - 11:30am)
Cindy as gotten out of bed for the first time in over 5 days. With some help from the nurses, she sat up, stood up, took a few steps, and has been sitting in a chair for about 45 minutes. All of these are taken for granted by most of us, but they are small miracles for Cindy right now.
Thank you Lord for the small miracles too.
Many of you have asked for an address to send a note or card to Cindy. I expect she will remain in the hospital for the next 2-3 days. After that, we will be at our friends - Bob & Sherry Scheihing (pronounced "shine") until Cindy is ready to travel back to Atlanta (probably 2-3 weeks).
Johns Hopkins Hospital
Meyer, room 966
1000 E Eager St
Baltimore, MD 21202
Bob & Sherry Scheihing
3847 Beatty Rd.
Monkton, MD 21111
Thank you Lord for the small miracles too.
Many of you have asked for an address to send a note or card to Cindy. I expect she will remain in the hospital for the next 2-3 days. After that, we will be at our friends - Bob & Sherry Scheihing (pronounced "shine") until Cindy is ready to travel back to Atlanta (probably 2-3 weeks).
Johns Hopkins Hospital
Meyer, room 966
1000 E Eager St
Baltimore, MD 21202
Bob & Sherry Scheihing
3847 Beatty Rd.
Monkton, MD 21111
Update (3/4/09 - 9:00am)
The challenges of the recovery process continue. I initially went back to the Scheihing's last night, but had to return to the hospital at midnight after Cindy called complaining that her legs were swollen and burning. She is retaining fluids and her bowels are still "asleep", so she is not allowed to eat anything. That all adds to her discomfort. Pain seems to be under control, but it takes heavy doses of the pain med. Cindy is sleeping off and on.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." Prov. 3:5
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." Prov. 3:5
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Update (3/3/09 - 2:30pm)
Cindy had a rough night last night. The pain medication is very strong (stronger than morphine) and it caused some hallucinations. They took Cindy off of the pain med for several hours, but then she was in too much pain. It's a difficult balance for them to manage. Cindy is in a private room and Matt and I are here with her. She is coherent and talking, but at times pretty groggy.
Cindy has asked for prayer for the feeling in her thighs. There has been some numbness in both upper thighs since Friday's surgery. The doctors say it's normal due to the amount of manipulation of nerves during surgery and post-op swelling. Cindy says it seems to have improved, but has asked for prayer anyway. Cindy has also asked for prayer for her rib. A rib was cracked during yesterday's surgery (not uncommon) and it's pretty painful. Cindy also had a chest tube inserted, but it appears that the drainage has stopped, so hopefully that means the tube can be removed soon.
All of this is a reminder that, although I believe the worst is behind us, recovery can be a slow process. All in His time.
-Rick
"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, 'He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.' Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day,... If you make the Most High your dwelling - even the Lord, who is my refuge - then no harm will befall you, no disaster will come near your tent. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone. 'Because he(she) loves me,' says the Lord, 'I will rescue him(her); I will protect him(her), for he(she) acknowledges my name. He(she) will call upon me, and I will answer him(her); I will be with him(her) in trouble, I will deliver him(her) and honor him(her). With long life will I satisfy him(her) and show him(her) my salvation.'" Ps. 91:1-5,9-16
Cindy has asked for prayer for the feeling in her thighs. There has been some numbness in both upper thighs since Friday's surgery. The doctors say it's normal due to the amount of manipulation of nerves during surgery and post-op swelling. Cindy says it seems to have improved, but has asked for prayer anyway. Cindy has also asked for prayer for her rib. A rib was cracked during yesterday's surgery (not uncommon) and it's pretty painful. Cindy also had a chest tube inserted, but it appears that the drainage has stopped, so hopefully that means the tube can be removed soon.
All of this is a reminder that, although I believe the worst is behind us, recovery can be a slow process. All in His time.
-Rick
"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, 'He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.' Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day,... If you make the Most High your dwelling - even the Lord, who is my refuge - then no harm will befall you, no disaster will come near your tent. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone. 'Because he(she) loves me,' says the Lord, 'I will rescue him(her); I will protect him(her), for he(she) acknowledges my name. He(she) will call upon me, and I will answer him(her); I will be with him(her) in trouble, I will deliver him(her) and honor him(her). With long life will I satisfy him(her) and show him(her) my salvation.'" Ps. 91:1-5,9-16
Monday, March 2, 2009
Update (3/2/09 - 4:00pm)
Matt and I spent about 30 minutes with Cindy in ICU. She's in pretty rough shape, in alot of pain, and not too coherent. I shared the miraculous news of how well the surgery went and it brought tears to her eyes. Of course, 10 minutes later she couldn't remember any of our conversation, so I told her all over again and she was thrilled as if hearing it for the first time. This could be fun telling Cindy the good news about every 10 minutes and watching her thrilled reaction, again and again. Precious moments.
-Rick
-Rick
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Update (3/2/09 - 1:00pm)
Waiting to see Cindy in ICU. I can't wait to tell her the good news; how the Lord heard our cries and answered our prayers and the prayers of so many faithful people.
"Come and listen, all you who fear God; let me tell you what he has done for me. I cried out to him with my mouth; his praise was on my tongue. If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened; but God has surely listened and heard my voice in prayer. Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me!" Ps. 66:16-20
"Praise the Lord, all you nations; extol him, all you peoples. For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord."
Ps. 117
"You are my God, and I will give you thanks; you are my God, and I will exalt you. Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever." Ps. 118:28-29
"Come and listen, all you who fear God; let me tell you what he has done for me. I cried out to him with my mouth; his praise was on my tongue. If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened; but God has surely listened and heard my voice in prayer. Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me!" Ps. 66:16-20
"Praise the Lord, all you nations; extol him, all you peoples. For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord."
Ps. 117
"You are my God, and I will give you thanks; you are my God, and I will exalt you. Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever." Ps. 118:28-29
Update (3/2/09 - 12:10am)
Praise the Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just spoke with the surgeons. They are finished! Much sooner than planned, because it went much better than expected. They did not have to sever the femoral nerve root! They did not have to remove the kidney! They did not have to take any colon!
The vertebrae was beautifully reconstructed.
All our prayers were answered!!
Please continue to pray for Cindy's recovery. The surgeons won't know for sure if there has been any collateral nerve damage for a while.
Thank you everyone for your faithful and effective prayers!!
-Rick
"Shout joyfully to the Lord, all the earth. Serve the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful singing. Know that the Lord himself is God; it is he that has made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people and the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise. Give thanks to him, bless his name. For the Lord is good; his lovingkindness is everlasting and his faithfulness to all generations." Ps. 100
I just spoke with the surgeons. They are finished! Much sooner than planned, because it went much better than expected. They did not have to sever the femoral nerve root! They did not have to remove the kidney! They did not have to take any colon!
The vertebrae was beautifully reconstructed.
All our prayers were answered!!
Please continue to pray for Cindy's recovery. The surgeons won't know for sure if there has been any collateral nerve damage for a while.
Thank you everyone for your faithful and effective prayers!!
-Rick
"Shout joyfully to the Lord, all the earth. Serve the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful singing. Know that the Lord himself is God; it is he that has made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people and the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise. Give thanks to him, bless his name. For the Lord is good; his lovingkindness is everlasting and his faithfulness to all generations." Ps. 100
Update (3/2/09 - 11:00am)
Just spoke with a nurse. Cindy is doing fine. They have successfully removed the tumor, but no information on the kidney, colon or femoral nerve. Please pray. I expect to know more in about 2 hours.
-Rick
"O love the Lord, all you godly ones! The Lord preserves the faithful and fully recompenses the proud doer. Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the Lord." Ps. 31:23-24
-Rick
"O love the Lord, all you godly ones! The Lord preserves the faithful and fully recompenses the proud doer. Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the Lord." Ps. 31:23-24
Update (3/2/09 - 10:00am)
Surgery started at 9:10 and we anticipate an update in about an hour. We will keep you all updated as updates come in.
Thanks for your prayers! We are very thankful for the prayers that are being lifted up every minute, it really means a lot. And how awesome is it that we have a God who is ready and waiting for us to bring our burdens to Him? These past couple days have been really cool, being able to see God's hand really at work. Keep up the prayer and encouragement, they are not going unnoticed!
-Matt
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
-Matthew 11:28-30
Thanks for your prayers! We are very thankful for the prayers that are being lifted up every minute, it really means a lot. And how awesome is it that we have a God who is ready and waiting for us to bring our burdens to Him? These past couple days have been really cool, being able to see God's hand really at work. Keep up the prayer and encouragement, they are not going unnoticed!
-Matt
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
-Matthew 11:28-30
Update (3/2/09 - 7:45am)
They took Cindy down to the operating room about 30 minutes ago. I will provide updates as they come in.
Matt and I had a special time of prayer and scripture reading with Cindy late last night. More prayer and scripture reading early this morning. She got some sleep last night. This morning, her spirits were high and she looked strong.
Thank you in advance for your prayers. Particular requests:
1. Supernatural strength for Cindy. She hasn't eaten much in the last 2 days. The Lord will have to be her strength today.
2. Successful removal of the tumor, in tact.
3. Protection of her kidney, colon, and especially her femoral nerve.
4. Supernatural skill, wisdom, and endurance for the surgeons.
-Rick
Matt and I had a special time of prayer and scripture reading with Cindy late last night. More prayer and scripture reading early this morning. She got some sleep last night. This morning, her spirits were high and she looked strong.
Thank you in advance for your prayers. Particular requests:
1. Supernatural strength for Cindy. She hasn't eaten much in the last 2 days. The Lord will have to be her strength today.
2. Successful removal of the tumor, in tact.
3. Protection of her kidney, colon, and especially her femoral nerve.
4. Supernatural skill, wisdom, and endurance for the surgeons.
-Rick
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
-Romans 12:12
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Update (3/1/09 - 8:00pm)
Said our goodbyes to Ryan and Michelle. They will be driving back to Vermont tomorrow, so please pray for their safety in the midst of the Northeast snow storm.
Cindy battled headache and nausea throughout the afternoon, and has been in and out of consciousness all day. She was not able to eat anything for dinner. She is sleeping soundly now.
Matt and I are going to grab a bite to eat. I plan to fast all day tomorrow.
Thank you for the continuous prayer support. I am convinced that not a minute went by today without someone being in prayer for Cindy. That is so comforting.
I feel the pressure of the enemy reforming their battle lines to rob and destroy my peace and confidence. I have to continually transfer the burden to Jesus, my shepherd and burden-bearer. The burden is too big for me. I have to trust Him, and I choose to do so. It is powerful to know that He who is in me is greater than he who is in the world.
-Rick
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
Cindy battled headache and nausea throughout the afternoon, and has been in and out of consciousness all day. She was not able to eat anything for dinner. She is sleeping soundly now.
Matt and I are going to grab a bite to eat. I plan to fast all day tomorrow.
Thank you for the continuous prayer support. I am convinced that not a minute went by today without someone being in prayer for Cindy. That is so comforting.
I feel the pressure of the enemy reforming their battle lines to rob and destroy my peace and confidence. I have to continually transfer the burden to Jesus, my shepherd and burden-bearer. The burden is too big for me. I have to trust Him, and I choose to do so. It is powerful to know that He who is in me is greater than he who is in the world.
-Rick
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
Update (3/1/09 - 3:15pm)
Thank you to those that have posted words of encouragement on Cindy's blog. Know that I read each one of them to her.
Matt, Ryan, and Michelle are here with us now. Cindy is sleeping soundly.
Matt, Ryan, and Michelle are here with us now. Cindy is sleeping soundly.
Update (3/1/09 - 2:00pm)
Cindy made it through the night just fine last night. She battled a migraine and nausea until around noon today. She has eaten a good lunch today and has rested well this afternoon.
A big snow storm is predicted for today and tomorrow, so Matt and I will be spending the night tonight in the hospital to make sure we're here for the surgery tomorrow morning.
More later.
"Surely God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid. The Lord, the Lord is my strength and my song. He has become my salvation." Isa. 12:2
A big snow storm is predicted for today and tomorrow, so Matt and I will be spending the night tonight in the hospital to make sure we're here for the surgery tomorrow morning.
More later.
"Surely God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid. The Lord, the Lord is my strength and my song. He has become my salvation." Isa. 12:2
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Update (2/28/09 - 9:00pm)
Cindy had a surprise visit today from our son Ryan and his fiance Michelle. They drove all the way down from Vermont.
Cindy is resting well now, but she has been pretty nauseous and has been fighting a headache. I'm spending the night in her room with her to keep a close eye.
-Rick
"My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken." Ps. 62:1-2
Cindy is resting well now, but she has been pretty nauseous and has been fighting a headache. I'm spending the night in her room with her to keep a close eye.
-Rick
"My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken." Ps. 62:1-2
Update (2/28/09 - 2:00pm)
Cindy was moved into a private room at noon today. Her pain was kept under control throughout the night. She is heavily sedated, but alert, with a sense of humor when she is awake. She ate some soup for lunch and is drinking plenty of her water (with Shaklee Performance mix of course).
Her nurse, Jen, is a nice and caring young lady. Matt is here with me now. Cindy's sister Debbie just left to return to PA. Bob and Sherry Scheihing, the friends that we're staying with here in Baltimore, are bringing some homemade soup for Cindy's dinner.
Her nurse, Jen, is a nice and caring young lady. Matt is here with me now. Cindy's sister Debbie just left to return to PA. Bob and Sherry Scheihing, the friends that we're staying with here in Baltimore, are bringing some homemade soup for Cindy's dinner.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Fourth Update (2/27/09) - 5:02 PM
Here's the fourth update!
I just spoke with the surgeons. Cindy has pulled through the surgery very well. Everything went according to plan. They are preparing to close her up. Will take another hour to hour and a half. She will be in ICU overnight. Lots of pain medication over the weekend.
Thank you all for faithfully praying Cindy through today. The Lord was clearly with her and the surgical team.
Now we turn our attention to Monday's surgery. Biggest prayer requests for Monday are for a (1) complete and successful resection of the tumor with clear margins; (2) protection of the kidney, colon, and especially the femoral nerve; (3) successful reconstruction of L2 vertebral section.
Will keep you all posted.
-Rick
"For our present troubles are quite small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us an immeasurably great glory that will last forever. So we don't look at the troubles we can see right now, rather we look forward to what we have not yet seen. For the troubles we see will soon be over, but the joys to come will last forever."
II Cor. 4:17-18 (NLT)
I just spoke with the surgeons. Cindy has pulled through the surgery very well. Everything went according to plan. They are preparing to close her up. Will take another hour to hour and a half. She will be in ICU overnight. Lots of pain medication over the weekend.
Thank you all for faithfully praying Cindy through today. The Lord was clearly with her and the surgical team.
Now we turn our attention to Monday's surgery. Biggest prayer requests for Monday are for a (1) complete and successful resection of the tumor with clear margins; (2) protection of the kidney, colon, and especially the femoral nerve; (3) successful reconstruction of L2 vertebral section.
Will keep you all posted.
-Rick
"For our present troubles are quite small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us an immeasurably great glory that will last forever. So we don't look at the troubles we can see right now, rather we look forward to what we have not yet seen. For the troubles we see will soon be over, but the joys to come will last forever."
II Cor. 4:17-18 (NLT)
Third Update (2/27/09) - 2:54 PM
Here is update number three...
I just spoke with the surgical nurse. Surgery is progressing well. Cindy doing very well.
-Rick
"You will keep in perfect peace him (and her) whose mind is steadfast, because he (she) trusts in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal."
Isa. 26:3-4
I just spoke with the surgical nurse. Surgery is progressing well. Cindy doing very well.
-Rick
"You will keep in perfect peace him (and her) whose mind is steadfast, because he (she) trusts in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal."
Isa. 26:3-4
Second Update (2/27/09) - 11:26 AM
Here is the second update:
Nurses report: Surgery is going well. Cindy's vitals are all good and stable. Surgery now estimated to go until 5pm.
Thanks for all the prayers and words of encouragement.
-Rick
"Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings. My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me."
Ps. 63:7-8
Nurses report: Surgery is going well. Cindy's vitals are all good and stable. Surgery now estimated to go until 5pm.
Thanks for all the prayers and words of encouragement.
-Rick
"Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings. My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me."
Ps. 63:7-8
First Update (2/27/09) - 8:39 AM
Here is the first update Dad sent out on Friday, Mom's first day of surgery:
MRI results showed the tumor is still there, but no change and no further damage to vertebrae.
MRI results showed the tumor is still there, but no change and no further damage to vertebrae.
Cindy was taken back for surgery just before 8am. I was able to be with her in the surgery prep room for the 45 minutes before she went back. I read scripture to her the whole time. Her spirits were high. She is in His hands.
The surgery is expected to begin around 9am. I expect an update from the nurse shortly thereafter and then every two hours from there.
I'll keep you posted.
-Rick
First Entry
Here is the first entry for Mom's (Cindy's) blog. From here on out we will be posting all updates here, rather than sending them out via email. So check in periodically to see what is going on!
-Matt
-Matt
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